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Are you trifling?
Because I know who is: Angelina Jolie, Chitlins, Karrine “Super Head” Steffans, Fake Ballers, Keyshia Coles Mama “Frankie” (MAN DOWN), dudes in H-town who I choose not even to name, and many, many, MANY others...

First of all for clarification purposes I would like to break the word down. Trife in Greek means the essence of trying to be something they are not, and the root word fling in Greek stems from the act of feeling like you are too much …okay im lying but down to the real, we have all experienced an act of trflingness in our lives. Either from that dude that suckers you into a date and tells you he left his wallet at home, or to the one that lies to you about his four kids with four baby mamas and still going. (SHUT UP! But keep Talking) Anyway, the point is male or female we have all been there at least once in our lives.

I can remember MY "Tre Trif" experience like it was yesterday……..The night was young and the moon was full… I was over at the homeys house (male) for a chill session but he kept trying to make it sexual, and when I told that fool to fall back he put me out in the rain. Yeah homey you know who you are. Not only was this by far one of my most memorable trifling experiences, it was utterly embarrassing. And to put the icing on the cake I found out that loser was later getting at my homey on the cool. (Shaking my freaking head).

That was from one of the members of Reporting Live. From the other, HERE I GO!
OKAY let's see where I can begin. It started a few years ago when I was entering this stage of dating horrible HORRIBLE triflin' young immature men who had nothing going for themselves. I experienced men who had two baby mama's and drug dealers, all the way to NFL players, and athletes who thought their "game was tight." In the words of Trina: "HELLL NAWW." Not only those, but I also dated the most thugged-out men out there.. all over H-town. At this point, I just want to sit here and tell myself "Dang, I'm glad I went through all that because I know what to avoid now." But let me tell you how triflin' these boys were. They tried to take my money, they tried to use me for rides and stuff.. take them to work and all, and not only did they use me for all that stuff, they completely lied to me.. all because they knew I got it made. I mean, I caught it when he was fraudly reveling himself.. but it's just a shame that these boys don't have any morals. They don't care what we think, they don't give a f*ck at how much a girl will cut for them. The term "trifling" clearly defines a female/male who is a liar, cheater, money-takin' thief who has NOTHING going for themselves. and I'm TIRED of them. I'm tired of these young men thinking they can do this typa stuff to me.. Like be real, we're all grown now.. leave that sh*t alone! Grow up and be a real gentleman, that's all I'm asking.

Next, Guys or girls who feel the need to abuse their significant others. (Now that’s trifling). I once had a friend who was trapped in an abusive relationship to the point where she would come to school with black eyes or busted lips. This girl would put up with so much and have the nerve to lie and cover for him, and when I would tell her to stand up for herself she would just list all the supposed good things he has done for her (B.S!)

But now to flip it up we have a voice from a male perspective to speak to Reporting Live's audience on his experiences: Ace …
Mr. Ace: "Hell nah let me tell yuh about these trifling females that I done experienced. Females these days be first of all asking to much. Ol big I need 500 dollars to pay for my weave. 500 dollars? That aint no damn price on weave that’s a car note. Females always hollering about dudes being trifling and tryna get at everything moving when this girl I met tried to tell me that wholesome crap, turns out this chick be in Metropolis every week, and saw her number in my brother phone. Now im shaking my head. To be quite honest I cant understand why its so hard for me to find a decent type female. I know im ghetto, and im looking for a ghetto queen. But dammit ghetto sho don’t mean trifling……."

Thank you Ace for that much-needed perspective. I actually agree we females meet guys that feel their game is so tight they can try and hide their 3 baby mommas. I mean do you honestly believe you can keep that hidden? Why cant dudes just be real and upfront? I mean sure if you meet a female like me and tell me off top I bout the lil one’s im chunking deuce and wishing you all the best. But hey don’t give up you might actually find that ghetto queen. Now there are plenty of other ways to be trifling like the way girls are to there fellow girlfriends. I mean you can literally think you know A chick then you turn around and fill a pitchfork being driven through your back. Anywayz to wrap this all up the lessons that we hoped you learned from this post is: Just say no to Trifling! Don’t cheat lets focus on wholesome relationships, if you don’t want to be tied down just leave. If you are being abused please muster up the strength to leave you deserve much more im sure. Girls don’t date or try to get at your friends dudes, And those very same dudes dont condone it before you guys all end up on an episode of "Maury" and to all my females you can still be a diva without being overbearing. And this concludes or episode in Triflinomics 101! TATA!